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YOUNGER CHILDREN (about 4-9) "I want to tell you something. My work has ended, because the company changed and doesn't need my job anymore. It isn't because of anything you did. I'm looking for a new job. You will still have [home, food, school, hugs]. If you feel worried you can ask me anything." PRIMARY / INTERMEDIATE (about 9-12) "My job has finished because [Company] made some changes. It's called redundancy. It happens to lots of people. We might have to be more careful with money for a while, so [we'll do X differently]. We're going to be fine as a family, and you can always ask me questions." TEENAGERS "I need to be honest with you. I lost my job in a restructure. We're making a plan, and money will be tighter for a bit. [Here's what might change.] I'd like your ideas on how we can all pitch in, and I want you to tell me if you're worried." THINGS TO SAY EVERY TIME - It's not your fault. - You are safe and looked after. - It's okay to feel worried or sad. I feel that way sometimes too. - Our family is still our family.
Tips
- Children notice stress. A calm, honest, age-appropriate explanation is better than silence.
- Keep routines (meals, bedtime, school) as steady as you can.
- Don't share adult money worries or blame in front of children. Do tell them if something will change for them.
- Tell their school or early-learning centre if your child is affected; teachers can offer extra support.
- Check Work and Income for help with school costs, childcare and Working for Families changes.
- Free support: 1737, Youthline 0800 376 633, Parent Helpline.
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